Voices of the Leaf: The wisdom of women

At Parisleaf, wisdom isn’t just something we admire — it’s something we see in action every day. It’s in the way challenges are met with creativity, decisions are guided by intuition and expertise, and conversations are enriched by insight and generosity. And at the heart of it all are the women of Parisleaf, whose leadership, perspective, and talent shape not only the work we do but the way we do it. This is a celebration of wisdom — the kind that inspires, empowers, and leaves a lasting impact.


Do you have a favorite fundraising campaign moment?

Brit: Working with Nicklaus Children’s Hospital has been one of the most meaningful experiences of my career. When I first started partnering with them, they were raising funds for a state-of-the-art surgical tower. Today, that tower is not only built, but it’s actively saving children’s lives and setting a new standard for pediatric care. I’m so honored to have played even a small part in bringing that vision to life.

Shelby: The team I served with had the privilege of facilitating a moment where beneficiaries of a recovery center could express their gratitude to a room full of major donors. Three individuals stood among hundreds, stating, “I am standing here today because of your generosity,” and “I wouldn’t be alive if it weren’t for you.” These survivors did the hard work of recovery, while the donors provided the safety and opportunities needed for that recovery process. The room erupted in standing ovations, and there wasn’t a dry eye in the place.

Missions matter because people matter. When we have the opportunity to help, we should take it. Show up for each other in any way you can. You will never regret being generous.


What excites you the most about the future of fundraising?

Ro: That it’s becoming more human. We’re seeing a shift toward storytelling, transparency, and connection — and that opens the door for deeper relationships between donors and missions. I’m excited to see more women and creatives at the table helping to shape those stories.

Shelby: What excites me about the future of fundraising is its humanity. Donors should be seen as individuals on their own generosity journey, rather than just as sources of financial support. True relationship managers help facilitate this journey by highlighting what resonates with donors about the organization’s mission and providing opportunities for them to engage fully. When philanthropy is at its best, it bridges the gap between people through storytelling. The exchange of experiences between donors, philanthropic leaders, and the communities they serve is the fertile soil where generosity grows.

Brit: Honestly, I love that fundraising is starting to feel more personal and community-driven. It’s less about the hard ask and more about telling real stories and showing real impact. As a designer, that gives me so much more room to create brands that feel honest, human, and connected. I’m especially excited about how good design and storytelling can help bring more people into the cause in a way that feels authentic and meaningful.


What is your hope for women in philanthropy?

Shelby: I hope women in philanthropy see themselves as creators of vision rather than just carriers. Our lived experiences are unique, and we bring value and ideas to life in unique ways. Let’s use our superpowers to nurture our creativity, solve the world’s problems, and cultivate futures where all can thrive.

Brit: I hope more women continue stepping into leadership with confidence, compassion, and vision. I want to see more spaces where women can lead on their own terms and bring their full selves to the table. The future of philanthropy is brighter when more voices and lived experiences are honored and included.


What’s a piece of advice you’d pass on to other women in your field?

Sarah: You have one, big, beautiful life. Be YOU. There is no one else. Walk into every space as if your perspective and expertise is needed — because it is! Above all else, remember that your job title is not the definition of your value.

Ro: Don’t wait for permission to take up space. Your voice, perspective, and creative intuition are incredibly valuable — especially when they don’t look or sound like everyone else’s in the room. Our field needs more women who lead with both heart and clarity. You don’t have to choose between the two.

Kailee: Embrace curiosity in the creative process rather than fixating on end results. In the philanthropic space, the most impactful solutions come from the minds of many. Ask questions, follow unexpected turns, and listen deeply to understand the roots that grow the fruit.

Brit: Your voice matters. Trust your instincts, and don’t water yourself down to meet someone else’s expectations. Creativity thrives when you bring your whole self to the work. Find people who believe in your vision and who lift you up, and don’t be afraid to be the person who does that for others too.

Shelby: Keep your head held high! You don’t have to see good for there to be good. Impact can take many shapes and forms. We may never know how we influence or inspire others simply by doing the next right thing. Feed yourself a steady supply of vision and claim your space. There is only one you in the world, so show up every day as if it matters — because it truly does.


What’s one thing you’d tell your younger self today?

Lina: You are blessed with a magical gift of unique perspective. Trust yourself, even when others don’t see what you see.

Michele: There’s so much I’d tell her! First, I’d remind her that mistakes aren’t setbacks — they’re the stepping stones that will shape her into the woman she’s meant to be. I’d tell her to be kinder to herself, to take more risks, and to chase adventure at every turn. Most importantly, I’d make sure she knows, without a doubt, that she is capable of anything — that no dream is too big and no path is out of reach.

Shelby: You are worthy. Every moment, of every day. You have value for being, not just doing. Be patient with yourself and others. Season your words with grace, and believe the best — even when it hurts. Life is a journey to live, not just a destination to arrive at — even winding paths can lead you straight to where you are meant to be. Laughter is greater than shame. Stay curious and spread joy. Forgive quicker than you want to be forgiven. End each day having accomplished something you’re proud of. Listen — truly listen – it is the simplest act of kindness you can give.

Kailee: Pay attention to what sparks envy, it’s often a clue pointing toward something you, too, are meant to pursue.

Ro: You’re not too much. You’re not too sensitive. You care deeply — and that’s your edge, not your weakness. Stay soft, stay curious, and trust that your empathy will lead you exactly where you’re meant to go.

Brit: You don’t need to have it all figured out. It’s okay to take your time, ask questions, and explore. The things that make you different are exactly what will make your work meaningful. Keep creating, keep learning, and trust that your path will come together in ways you can’t see yet.


We celebrate the wisdom of the women of Parisleaf, but more importantly, it shapes who we are. The insights, strength, and leadership that make us better every day.

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